Me and Kel 2 years ago Whistler BC
I work in a nursing home and I deal with death on a daily basis but yesterday as my best friend had just lost her dad the words did not come to me. I kept getting choked. I have heard of this with nurses that loose their own family loved one and it hits different but I have never experienced this.
Our deep friendship we have and the closeness we have is in the heart and when she is hurting I feel it too. I can not say. "I know how you feel". because I have not had a parent die. We even talked about the difference in the feeling from a grandparent to parent dying. My dear friend is an amazing artist and photographer and I know she will continue to express herself in that way. She has always been such an encouragement to me and we go back to 7th grade when we met.
I do have an ear
A shoulder to cry on
A heart that feels
A deep connection
A tear
A passion
A deep faith
A rooted foot in the ground
Until we talk again dear friend
I Love you!!!
This is such a lovely post and definitely heart felt!!
ReplyDeleteWishing you a wonderful weekend,
LuLu~*xoxo
I suppose we can never really say the right thing in these situations, but your presence will be appreciated by your friend I am sure. such a lovely post
ReplyDeleteShel I've been in your friend's shoes and honestly it's not important what words you say, what's important is just being there with your love and support x
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